贴这段文字是为了提醒我自己，象我和一样脾气暴燥的家长， 在孩子犯错误的时候，先深呼吸，后行动。（ 行动包括责骂孩子）。。。
This story is a good lesson learnt and indeed a true philosophy now a
days. It's a fact in our current lives where people are USED and things
are LOVED.
While a man was polishing his new car, his 4 yr old son picked a stone &
scratched lines on the side of the car.
In anger, the man took the child's hand & hit it many times, not
realizing he was using an iron wrench.
At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple
fractures.
When the child saw his father.... with painful eyes he asked 'Dad when
will my fingers grow back?'
The man was very hurt and speechless, he went back to car and kicked it a
lot of times.
Devastated by his own actions...... sitting in front of that car he
looked at the scratches ........... the child had written 'LOVE YOU DAD'.
The next day that man committed suicide....
Anger and Love have NO LIMIT - choose the latter to have a beautiful &
lovely life....
THINGS are meant to be USED and PEOPLE are to be LOVED,
..but the problem of today's world is that...
People are USED. & Things are LOVED!!!
活着的意义
3 years ago
在孩子犯错误的时候，先深呼吸，后行动。（ 行动包括责骂孩子）。。。－－－－亲爱的ＰＰ，咱能不能深呼吸后，也不行动，不骂孩子，责怪一下也就行了，孩子这么小，当个羊妈嘛：）））
ReplyDelete你要是下次再生气，深呼吸后也不行，就骂ＰＰ公得了，把他当出气筒，不当白不当：）））
抱抱PP，别太自责了！
ReplyDelete每个人都有失控的时候。尽量改进，但也别太苛求自己。
事后和 HH 谈心，她会明白的。HH 比你想象的皮实！
趁这会儿可以留言,我赶快的...
ReplyDelete亲爱的ＰＰ，咱能不能深呼吸后，也不行动，不骂孩子，责怪一下也就行了，孩子这么小，当个羊妈嘛：）））-- 行, 我听你的, 当羊妈. HH本来就是属羊的.:)
P公原本是是出气筒的,不过现在点越来越高了. 哎,这人啊,就是不能对他太好了, 一给鼻子,准登着上脸了.
我正琢磨着怎么修理他呢.:))
小泥: 谢谢你的安慰. 看你说每个人都有失控的时候,我心里舒服多了.:)
也感谢你在我上一篇的留言, 让我获益良多.
还有你推荐的博客,文章非常好,对我很有帮助.
多谢你.
我这些天好好想了一下自身教育孩子的问题,清楚了好多.而且这几天态度不错,自己表扬一下.:)
HH是个没有心计,不会计较的大方孩子, 相信她会忘记我曾经的不公,原谅我的.;)
歌儿写信骂过我了, 我心里轻松了许多.
谢谢你们.
小泥: 谢谢你的安慰. 看你说每个人都有失控的时候,我心里舒服多了.:) -- 这人啊，啥时候都要找个垫背的，才舒服，赫赫！
ReplyDelete我应该说，我自己和我周围的人，都有失控的时候：）
轻松了就好，HH 会懂你的！